Comments on: dilemmas. i gots them. http://drbolte.wordpress.com/2008/05/27/dilemmas-i-gots-them/ rambling about life, love, and literary pursuits. Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:34:36 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Kathleen http://drbolte.wordpress.com/2008/05/27/dilemmas-i-gots-them/#comment-3959 Kathleen Fri, 30 May 2008 15:26:54 +0000 http://drbolte.wordpress.com/?p=560#comment-3959 Be honest with the blindish date guy. You can keep in touch with IM guy, but I say flirt with whoever you want to. You don't want to be waiting around for a guy who may or may not be interested/moving back. Oh, and hi, I don't believe I've commented before, but I've been reading your blog for a little while now. :) Be honest with the blindish date guy. You can keep in touch with IM guy, but I say flirt with whoever you want to. You don’t want to be waiting around for a guy who may or may not be interested/moving back.

Oh, and hi, I don’t believe I’ve commented before, but I’ve been reading your blog for a little while now. :)

]]> By: Wendy http://drbolte.wordpress.com/2008/05/27/dilemmas-i-gots-them/#comment-3950 Wendy Wed, 28 May 2008 05:23:57 +0000 http://drbolte.wordpress.com/?p=560#comment-3950 someone asks for advice, so i jump on it! blind date guy--if you're REALLY sure there is nothing there, then fib a little, like "it's me, not you", or actually "i'm kinda interested in someone else right now, sorry" or "i'm not really interested in dating seriously" BUT the older I've gotten the more I see people not give others a chance for not so good reasons. IM guy-TOTAL waste of time; you're a writer, you enjoy words, and you will mix up that with WHO the guy really is. Face to face is when you get to know someone. The better a writer he is, the more trouble you are in. Phone calls, IM'ing when you're apart, totally unreal and dreamlike. IMO. blogging-by definition could be about NOTHING, or some small thing you notice, or some thing that pisses you off that day, whatever you want, or nothing. post nothing, or a photo, or whatever. diss--maybe just set aside one day to work on the loose ends? play, goof off, whatever, until then, then roll up the sleeves for just that day, starting with the smaller, easier accomplishments. someone asks for advice, so i jump on it!

blind date guy–if you’re REALLY sure there is nothing there, then fib a little, like “it’s me, not you”, or actually “i’m kinda interested in someone else right now, sorry” or “i’m not really interested in dating seriously” BUT the older I’ve gotten the more I see people not give others a chance for not so good reasons.

IM guy-TOTAL waste of time; you’re a writer, you enjoy words, and you will mix up that with WHO the guy really is. Face to face is when you get to know someone. The better a writer he is, the more trouble you are in. Phone calls, IM’ing when you’re apart, totally unreal and dreamlike. IMO.

blogging-by definition could be about NOTHING, or some small thing you notice, or some thing that pisses you off that day, whatever you want, or nothing. post nothing, or a photo, or whatever.

diss–maybe just set aside one day to work on the loose ends? play, goof off, whatever, until then, then roll up the sleeves for just that day, starting with the smaller, easier accomplishments.

]]> By: chickbug http://drbolte.wordpress.com/2008/05/27/dilemmas-i-gots-them/#comment-3949 chickbug Wed, 28 May 2008 01:03:39 +0000 http://drbolte.wordpress.com/?p=560#comment-3949 1a- just be honest with him. he's a man. he'll be ok. 1b- will you regret it if you never try and never find out? if so, keep at it. 2a- NO! no bloggy dark for a few weeks. there must be something! anything! to write about. 2b- take a break. don't think about it for a few days and try again? 1a- just be honest with him. he’s a man. he’ll be ok.

1b- will you regret it if you never try and never find out? if so, keep at it.

2a- NO! no bloggy dark for a few weeks. there must be something! anything! to write about.

2b- take a break. don’t think about it for a few days and try again?

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